|
Post by speedracer on Mar 9, 2006 14:49:32 GMT -5
So last weekend, my girlfriend and I mutually broke up our relationship so we can both prepare for our missions more efficiently. We still talk and we are on good terms with each other, so I'm greatful for that. But it's just weird adjusting to not having a girlfriend anymore.
After dating her for two and a half years straight, you get into a certain mindset. Your significant other is always on your mind; you worry about her, you wonder what she is up to, you think about calling her, etc.
It's weird to me to let that go, to stop dedicating so much brain space to someone else.
Now that I'm not dating someone, I also feel pretty vulnerable here at the "meet" market known as BYU, where everyone is looking forward to marriage. Thankfully, I can use my mission as a good excuse.
So, if I think about anything else that strikes me as weird about not dating someone anymore, I'll let y'all know.
|
|
|
Post by ZionYouthofSC on Apr 13, 2006 11:43:31 GMT -5
Yeah i know the feeling. My last gf and I broke up...and i feel so lonely. I wish I could just have someone to hold. Nothing can replace the feeling of holding someone in your arms that you care about.
|
|
|
Post by jogden on Apr 14, 2006 0:26:48 GMT -5
Hmm...I just sort of had the opposite experience so now it is odd to not be in the "market" at BYU. It almost feels weird to tell people "no" when I get an invitation with them to a concert, a hike, a movie, whatever. I was invited to a hike the Y with a girl I work with at 1:30am, and had to ask her, can I invite some friends. It was different.
|
|